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Pesi Gordon

In honor of Naftali Gordon Z’L

On October 7, 2023, Pesi Gordon’s husband, Naftali Yonah Gordon, was killed in combat during the Gaza war. Naftali, a master sergeant in the IDF’s 53rd Battalion, left behind Pesi and their two young daughters. Pesi continues to raise their children while honoring his memory and sacrifice.

Educational Guide

  1. What went through Pesi's mind when she first learned about Naftali’s death, and how did she handle telling her daughters?

  2. How did Pesi balance comforting her daughters with her own emotions? Do you think it was difficult for her to stay strong for them?

  3. How did Pesi’s relationship with Naftali shape who she is today, and how does she feel about moving forward without him?

  4. What role does community support, like meals or visits, play in Pesi’s grieving process? How does she feel about people reaching out?

  5. How does Pesi feel about the word "widow," and how has her understanding of it changed since her loss?

  6. What do you think Pesi means when she talks about the strength she gains from Naftali’s messages about life and the war?

  7. How does Pesi’s story about her sister Malkie’s loss differ from her own experience, and how does she cope with both losses?

  8. Do you think Pesi believes Naftali is still with her in some way? What makes her feel connected to him even after his death?

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