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Chava Zenilman

In honor of Ari Zenilman Z’L

On October 7, 2023, Chava Landau Zenilman’s husband, Ari, was called up for reserve duty in response to the attack on Israel. He left to defend the country, and two months later, he was killed in combat in Gaza. Chava now raises their three children alone, honoring Ari’s memory and his sacrifice.

Educational Guide

  1. How did Chava react when she first learned of Ari’s death, and what can we learn from her response?

  2. What does Chava mean by ‘togetherness,’ and how did her understanding of it change after Ari’s death?

  3. What stands out about Chava’s journey through the funeral and Shiva, and what does it teach us about coping with grief?

  4. How did Chava balance caring for her children and taking care of herself during this difficult time?

  5. Why is Chava’s fear of being alone so significant, and what does it say about healing from grief?

  6. How can grief lead to personal growth and self-awareness, as Chava describes?

  7. What is the importance of rituals like the funeral, Shiva, and Shloshim in the grieving process?

  8. What message do you think Ari would want to share with the Jewish people today, and how can we honor his legacy?

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